My great grandmother wore long sleeves, high necklines, and long hem lines with lead weights sewn in so that a wind wouldn't blow up and show her ankles. My favorite picture in the family album is my grandmother in a modest bathing suit sitting by her mother dressed as described above on a beach in sunny Southern California. Yes, cultures change even in churches. However, morals do not. They do not evolve.
Does Scripture evolve? Is what is right and true decided by what is embraced by society? I believe what is happening in our nation and even in our churches hinges upon whether we believe in the inerrant Word of God. We left another denomination because it did not stand upon that. Either we believe in what God has to say to us through His Word, or we believe in societal mores and bend Scripture accordingly apart from 6,000+ years of understanding.

Just as Jesus said to the woman caught in adultery, "Neither do I condemn you. Go and sin no more." He called her adultery sin or He would not have said, "Go and sin no more." We can love the sinner but hate the sin just as Jesus did. The world now says, "Neither do I condemn you. What you are doing is not sin really. In fact I quite commend you in your sin." Can we not offer hope to those trapped in sin? That is what the dear homosexual friend, a young man who has tried to commit suicide needs, hope. He is not despondent over society not accepting him; he is despondent over the effects of sin, suffering from the consequences of his choice to live in sin. Is the church so lukewarm that we believe those who are practicing the homosexual lifestyle suffer no consequences from their sin, no sorrow for sin from which to repent until "God gave them over to a depraved mind." (Romans 1:28)?

Jesus offers hope through repentance, a changed heart which brings a changed lifestyle. Jesus said, "For God sent not His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (John 3:17) Saved from what? Sin. As one commentator wrote, we must be ready for the sexual revolution refugees.
Do we truly believe that "Therefore if any man is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things have passed away; behold, new things have come."? Do we truly believe the truths of Romans 1:18-32? Today the justices of the Supreme Court "gave hearty approval to those who practice them." (v.32)
We do not lead a person to be saved by saying that they are not living in sin. We all have sinned. Yet, some of us have accepted the salvation God offers and are redeemed, are changed in our hearts, and walk according to please Him made possible by His Holy Spirit. That is our hope.
The most loving attitude we can take towards homosexuality is when opportunity presents itself, offer a better way, the way of holiness. To do otherwise is to write them off as hell bent sinners. It is a sad day when lukewarm Christians offer no hope to the lost. Acceptance cloaked as compassion does not lead to the path of redemption.
"There is a fountain filled with Blood,
Drawn from Emmanuel's veins,
And sinners plunged beneath that flood
Lose all their guilty stains.
The dying thief rejoiced to see
That fountain in his day;
And there may I, as vile as he,
Wash all my sins away.
Dear dying Lamb, Thy precious Blood
Shall never lose its power,
Till all the ransom'd Church of God
Be saved to sin no more.
E'er since by faith I saw the stream
Thy flowing Wounds supply,
Redeeming love has been my theme,
And shall be till I die.
Then in a nobler, sweeter song,
I'll sing Thy power to save,
When this poor lisping, stammering tongue
Lies silent in the grave.
Lord, I believe Thou hast prepared,
Unworthy though I be,
For me a Blood-bought free reward,
A golden harp for me.
'Tis strung and tuned for endless years,
And formed by power Divine,
To sound in God the Father's ears
No other name but Thine.
We live in a day that terrorists bent on the destruction of Christianity are attacking. Christians must recant or be tortured and killed and their wives and daughters given over as sex slaves to the enemy. What a nation we have become to think that the battlefront is over a rainbow flag.